ORLANDO
Donna Lormans 7-year-old son, Drew, has autism. Several years ago, she was
asked to leave a church because its members could not handle her son. On Jan. 9, Lorman
became a member of Peace United
Methodist Church here because the churchs members have accepted her family and
"have definitely impacted our lives every week," she said.
Lorman is part of the Southwest Orlando Community Support Group, a ministry of the
Peace church to families with special-needs children, according to Laura Majistro Wells, a
member of the church and one of the leaders of the support group ministry.
Shes also one of three group members who have been made to feel unwelcome at
other churches because of their children.
"Several parents have come to us with stories of churches where they felt excluded
before," Majistro Wells said. "Now, theyre not. And they know God has not
turned his back on them."
The ministry began last July after Majistro Wells, a professional social worker, met
Lorman, who had just started bringing her son to the churchs Celebration Station
ministry, a Wednesday night program for children that includes music and Bible study.
"My passion is working with people with disabilities," Majistro Wells said.
"I moved here two years ago
from a church in Durham [N.C.] with a large
special-needs population. I knew there were people in this community with needs, and Peace
is very open to all people."
The ministry is now serving a dozen area families who meet once a month, allowing
parents to build a community of support.
"The parent support group is tremendous," Lorman said. "It lets
you know youre not alone, and you have a place to let it out, share your different
experiences and get help from other parents."
As many as 11 volunteers from the church also meet with the families so they can become
familiar with the children, Majistro Wells said. They then serve as mentors or
"shadows" to the children at church services or events.
Lorman said she appreciates not having to watch her son every minute while she is at
church and the time he has with other children.
"Wednesday is an opportunity for him to be with normal peers," she said.
"He just gets to be a part, and thats the biggest thing for us."
Majistro Wells says she has seen the ministry impact the rest of the congregation, too.
"Its the power of presence," she said. "Seeing the children in church
breaks down the stigma. The
ccongregation membercongregation members are more tolerant."
She said parents not involved in the program have been asking her questions about
disabilities, symptoms and where to go for help.
Last November, the ministry received a $1,100 grant from the annual budget of the
Church and Society ministry teams, which is part of the Conference Council on Ministries
and receives its funding from connectional giving, or apportionments.
The majority of the money will help offset the cost of the dinners served during the
monthly support meetings. The remainder will be set aside to help start a new ministry for
disabled adults in supported living programs.
Lorman said she is thankful to the church for its help and warm welcome. "This has
been wonderful," she said. "Parents in other places need this so much."