LAKELAND — Nearly 950 United Methodist laity, clergy and bishops
gathered in Lakeland Dec. 14 to honor the life and ministry of the
late Cornelius L. Henderson, bishop of the Florida Conference from
September 1996 until his death Dec. 7.
Henderson, 66, died in a hospice center in Atlanta after a two-year
battle with multiple myeloma, a cancer of the plasma cells.
Friends and colleagues paid tribute to the man whose evangelistic
zeal helped the conference grow for the first time in eight years.
Stories about Henderson’s warmth and concern for others kept the
crowd laughing, while words of thanks and remembrance brought many to
tears.
Bishop Ricardo Pereira of the Cuba Methodist Church traveled to
Lakeland specifically to attend the service and honor the late bishop.
He told the congregation that all of the Cuban people loved Henderson.
When Pereira called a government office to make his travel
arrangements, he spoke to a woman who is a member of the Communist
party.
"I told her Bishop Henderson had died, and she told me to give
her love and greetings to his family," Pereira said. "If the
people who don’t have our faith thought of him that way, can you
imagine how the people of the church loved him?"
The Rev. Bill Barnes, pastor of Orlando’s St. Luke’s United
Methodist Church, remembered Henderson’s tireless efforts to reach
people. "He taught me how to visit a theme park," Barnes
said.
Each year Barnes invited the Hendersons to spend a day during the
Christmas season at one of the Orlando-area theme parks.
"Cornelius Henderson saw it all as a great opportunity to
share Christ," Barnes said. "You’d be walking and lose the
bishop…and when you found him, he’d be in conversation with a
child, a single parent or an elderly person with aching feet…When
those people went home, they weren’t talking about the park, they
were talking about this wonderful man. He could touch a person in a
way they would never forget. Cornelius was Jesus’ touch in the
world."
Dr. Kevin James, superintendent of the St. Petersburg District,
said his strongest memory of the bishop was his preaching and
interacting with the people around him. "I can see him in heaven
right now preaching…asking, ‘Can I get a witness?’ and giving
Peter and James a high five," he said.
On a lighter note, Dr. Robert Barber, a retired clergyman and
conference trustee responsible for maintaining the episcopal
residence, shared memories of his friendship with Henderson and his
wife, Dorothye.
While helping the newly-elected bishop move into the parsonage,
Barber said he realized that nobody had brought a coffee pot and
coffee for the couple’s first morning in the house. He told them he
would call someone from the church to bring it over, but Mrs.
Henderson told him not to.
" ‘I don’t fix his coffee in the morning,’ she said. ‘If
he wants coffee, let him go to the Waffle House,’ " Barber
said.
When Henderson attended his first Florida School of Ministry, the
conference’s clergy asked him about his relationship with his wife.
Henderson replied that they were never separate from each other, or if
they were apart, a day did not go by that they did not talk on the
phone, Barber said.
Joseph Ha, district lay leader of the West Palm Beach District and
member of the Korean United Methodist Church of South Florida, spoke
to the bishop’s empty robe and stole, which had been laid across the
altar rail at the beginning of the service.
"Good afternoon, bishop. Can you hear me, bishop? Where are
you, bishop?" Ha said. "Bishop, you have motivated and
transformed me through my personal life…I’m not the only one here
who learned your lesson in faith action…and servant
leadership."
Ha thanked Henderson for helping him get elected a Florida
Conference delegate to the 2000 Jurisdictional Conference and
motivating him to become more involved in conference and
denominational groups, even though it has made "the last eight
months the busiest of my life."
Recalling the story of Elijah and Elisha, Ha told the bishop he had
one last request. "If you ask me, ‘What can I do for you?’
let me inherit a double portion of your spirit," he said. "I
want a double portion of your spirit…your passion for ministry and…your
healing heart.
"We miss you. We miss you. We all wish to see you soon in the
Father’s kingdom."
Henderson is survived by his wife, Dorothye; daughter, Leah Dor-Lyn
Henderson Smith; son-in-law Disraeli Smith Sr.; and two grandsons,
Disraeli Smith II and Cornelius Linton Henderson Smith. Smith and her
family live in College Park, Ga.
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Photo by Michael Wacht |
Leah Henderson Smith (right), daughter of the late Bishop Cornelius
L. Henderson, received condolences at a reception following her father's
memorial service Dec. 14 in Lakeland. At his Dec. 12 funeral in Atlanta,
Smith said, "I love my Daddy, and I know...he loves me." |
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