EDGEWATER — One Friday night at Edgewater United Methodist
Church, the buzz was reminiscent of the “Seven Degrees of Kevin
Bacon” routine, a kind of game to connect nearly any movie star with
almost any film featuring Bacon.
Rex Hoffman, one of the church’s youth pastors, asked the teens
to stand one at a time and tell the group which other youth first
invited them to the “Lost and Found” Friday night outreach event.
Each youth pointed to the person who had invited him or her. Those
youth, in turn, identified the people who first invited them.
Eventually, the core 15 or so kids of the original youth group were
recognized as the ones who had set this conspiracy of invitation and
hospitality in motion.
“I believe we had 121 kids that night,” Hoffman said. “It was
awesome. Everybody was clapping.”
The church averages about 250 people in attendance and is located
in an area of below-average-income households in southern Volusia
County. Lost and Found began about a year and a half ago after Hoffman
and his wife, Sarah, also a youth leader, sat down with the core group
of youth and prayerfully ironed out a call for doing things
differently.
“We had a vision, both us and the youth group, that we could
reach pretty much all of Edgewater,” Hoffman said. “There were so
many kids not being reached as far as after-school programs or sports
or anything. We figured we had a facility we could do something with.”
The Hoffmans and the youth visited other churches’ coffeehouses
aimed at young people, gathering ideas as they put the Friday night
program together. The program was launched, and youth group members
began to invite their friends. The program now averages about 85 to 90
teens per Friday evening.
Lost and Found features a game room, multiple screens displaying
Christian music videos, low-cost food prepared by a dedicated
volunteer and lots of space for teens to talk or be counseled.
The Rev. Anne Godbold, the church’s senior pastor, said 60
percent to 80 percent of the kids are unchurched.
“When they first started coming to us, they didn’t have any
understanding of what a church was,” Godbold said. “One Friday
night a couple of boys were sitting on a table. I asked them to please
get off the table. They said, ‘Who are you?’ I said, ‘I’m the
pastor.’ They said, ‘What’s that?’ These kids are really now
beginning to ask questions of faith. They consider us their church,
even though they haven’t come on Sunday morning.”
The church’s spring confirmation class will involve between 10 to
15 youth, with about only four of them part of the congregation,
according to Godbold.
Godbold said many of the kids coming from outside the church
community are growing up in broken and painful situations. “As they
share their stories with us, it’s amazing how quickly they begin to
trust you as an adult, when you’re present. They kind of look at me
as the mama. At the same time, I’ve had young people share stories
that are just heartbreaking. We can offer them prayer and support, and
we can show them that not all adults act the way they have experienced
adults in their own homes.”
Some of the youth have been referred to therapists. Local police
officers also have pointed out that they have observed fewer teens
loitering in the area on Friday nights, as well as a reduction in
juvenile crime.
Last year, Edgewater’s senior high youth went on a spring break
mission trip to the Bahamas and led Bible studies, while middle
schoolers worked on homes in the Tampa community. This year the senior
high group will lead Bible studies in Daytona Beach during spring
break.
Godbold and Hoffman give credit to Lost and Found’s numerous
adult volunteers for the program’s rapid development and success.
“Any church can do something if you have great people that have a
vision that God has given them, and if they are willing to step out on
faith,” Hoffman said.