When I was a parent of growing sons, I used to be impressed by the
public service announcement on television that featured the question,
“Do you know where your children are?” When my sons became adolescents,
and Melba and I gave them more and more freedom, that question used to
bother me occasionally. We tried to make arrangements so that we would
always know where our children were. If we didn’t know where our
children were, then the risks of them getting hurt or into trouble would
increase.
I think this is also a good question for congregations to ask.
Congregations, do you know where your children are? Of course, the
question depends upon our knowing who our children are. They are the
children for whom we are responsible. They include not only the children
involved in our congregational life, but also those in our community. Do
you know where they are? Do you know how they are doing in school? Do
you know if they have adults taking care of them after school? Do you
know if they are learning how to trust in the living God whose love has
been revealed in Jesus? Do you know if they are being fed, clothed
properly, loved?
In 1996 The Council of Bishops announced the Bishops’ Initiative on
Children in Poverty. The bishops challenged United Methodist Christians
to embrace ministry to children, especially poor children in our
communities, as the focus of our ministry. To give guidance to local
congregations the bishops provided a checklist for every congregation to
use to assess its ministry to children. [This checklist can be found at
http://www.umc.org/initiative/cfagc/.] Every congregation should
commit itself to a process of evaluation and planning for ministry to
children using the checklist as a beginning guide.
Ministry to children is not just one aspect of a congregation’s
program. It should be at the center of every congregation’s mission.
This theological assertion is warranted by the way in which children are
included in God’s covenant with God’s people and also by the way in
which Jesus made the blessing of children an integral part of his
ministry in the world. The transformation of many congregations involves
the creation of intentional ministries to children in their communities.
I was a pastor when the Bishops’ Initiative on Children in Poverty
was first announced. I heard in the bishops’ call a summons of the
Spirit of God to the Christians called Methodists. I still believe the
Spirit is summoning us to embrace the children in our midst with love.
Do you know where your children are?