SEBRING
In life, Faye Gordon made an impact on the lives of many children at First United
Methodist Church here, church member Nancy Hensley says. Through the 1950s and 60s, Gordon
taught Sunday school and served as counselor for the junior high Methodist Youth
Foundation (MYF).
The Rev. Chuck Weaver, Tallahassee District superintendent and a member of
Gordons MYF, said Gordon laid the foundations for his current leadership position
within the Florida Conference when he was a member of her MYF group.
"Faye had a great influence on my and my wifes beginning to show leadership
in the church," he said.
And now, even after her death in September 1998, Gordon is still having a positive
effect on children through "Fayes Place," a transitional home for abused
women and children that is a ministry of the Sebring church. The church inherited the
house in which Fayes Place is located from Gordon when she died, making the ministry
a possibility.
Fayes Place, which has apartments for two families, gives a single woman or a
woman with children a place to live and restart her life after escaping an abusive
situation. It is the step between a safe house and independent living, Hensley said.
"They may have no family to turn to for help, no job, no place to go except back
to the abusive situation," she said. "At Fayes Place, they live on their
own, pay a small fee, and it gives them the chance to finish their education, go on a job
search, figure out transportation and how to live on their own."
Joy Kruppa, a program manager with the Peace River Center for Personal Development,
said this type of facility is unique and a good beginning to serving a larger need.
"Very often, women go back into an abusive situation and the children are subjected
to more violence because the women dont have a choice or dont know they have a
choice," she said.
The Peace River Center is a not-for-profit community mental health organization in
Polk, Highlands and Hardee counties that provides services for people who are mentally ill
and those who need intervention due to a crisis, Kruppa said. It is leasing Fayes
Place for $1 per year and providing the case management and mental health services for the
residents.
The center itself serves approximately 10,000 clients each year, with more than 800
receiving assistance through the Centers two domestic violence shelters.
The Fayes Place house is a two-story, wood-frame house built in the 1930s by
Gordons family that is adjacent to the church property. When the family moved, they
kept the house as a rental property. Eventually, it was abandoned.
"A committee was formed to figure out what to do with this
dilapidated
house," Hensley said. "Should we tear it down, fix it up, rent
it or do something that was an outreach to the community from the church?"
The church invited it neighbors to share their ideas for the house. When Kevin Roberts,
executive director of the Highlands Countys Childrens Services Council,
highlighted the need for transitional housing for victims of domestic violence, church
members decided they could use the house to help meet that need.
Over the next six months, more than 50 church volunteers and many more from the
community worked to restore the house, Hensley said. The church paid half the $47,000 cost
of restoration; the Childrens Services Councils foundation paid the rest.
Church members held a shower for the house, bringing everyday items residents would
need as the gifts, Hensley said. Kids in the Sprouts childrens ministry bought two
bedspreads for the houses bunk beds and put them on the beds themselves.
Fayes Place has been the residence for two families since it opened April 1,
including a mother and her two elementary-aged children, Hensley said. Although its
not a requirement that residents get involved in the church, the mother plays volleyball
at the church, the children attend Sprouts and the family attends Sunday school.